The pain someone feels when a loved one dies is unexplainable. It is a greater pain when it is your adult child and your caregiver.
What is even worse is when your other adult children think you cannot be on your own anymore and want to send you away to a nursing home or such. They had not been around when you were living with your other child so how would they know what your needs are or if you are having problems?
Just because you are grieving and are having a hard time adjusting does not mean you are ready to be put away. Take each day and honor your parents, tell them you love them and spend sometime talking to them. Ask questions about what they like or don’t like as what you might think they like or not like is usually not what they say.